“It’s not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean.” ~ Tony Robbins.
What are your favorite childhood Christmas memories?
Maybe it was going to the midnight church service.
Maybe it was all the cool toys you got.
Maybe it’s memories of decorating the Christmas tree or watching your favorite holiday specials together.
If you celebrate in another tradition during this time of the year, think of memories that may apply to you.
What new memories will you create this holiday season?
As you celebrate this holiday season, think of how powerful these memories can be years, even decades from now.
As you go about your days during the busiest and most stressful season of the year, ask yourself this question:
“What sacred memories am I creating in this moment?”
Think of this when you’re feeling frustrated as you fight the crowds to get those last minute gifts.
Think of this if you’re dreading having to be around “that” family member again.
Think of this when you’re frustrated by the thought of the season losing it’s true meaning or sad over the loss of a loved one during the holidays.
This question will draw you away from the anxieties of the past and future and into the glorious present.
You may find yourself singing along with the radio at the top of your lungs as you sit in traffic.
You might find yourself in the midst of good conversation with that difficult family member.
Of you may find yourself expressing deep gratitude for wonderful memories created with loved who passed away.
Memories make us who we are
So be intentional about the memories you are creating right now.
And you’ll be planting seeds of blessings that will produce a rich harvest.
Very good advice, Cylon, thank you.
The danger is that we can be too busy – hence be careless in what, and how, we say things to others. What we may inadvertently say and immediately forget, can have a lasting impact on, and thus be memorable to, our ‘victim.’
Better to smile and say little when busy. I shall try and remember that!
In the meantime, please allow me to wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas.
You’re welcome Zara. So true about our carelessness with our words….and so right that we also need to be aware of the potential memories we’re creating in others. Merry Christmas to you and yours as well!
This is beautiful Cylon, thank you. I remember the absolute thrill and excitement of watching one of the original James Bond movies or The Sound of Music as a family at Christmas – holiday bliss. I love your question that we can take forward, way beyond the holiday season into 2017 – ‘what sacred memories am I creating at the moment?. ‘ This is now written on the inside cover of my journal – thank you.
You’re very welcome Laura 🙂 So true. I also plan to use this question to help me and bless those I serve through to 2017 and beyond. May this question allow your 2017 to be filled with joyful adventures, peace, love, and success!